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How Solo Travel Leads to Self-Discovery

My Solo Trip to Morocco:
 

When you solo travel, you discover a side of yourself that you have never met before.

I had travelled to eighteen countries before Morocco. Some of those trips were alone, but none were as far, or as emotionally significant, as this one. I was in the middle of the winter blues, stuck in a repetitive cycle of mundane routines that made life feel small and suffocating. I knew that if I continued living the same days over and over again, I would slowly lose myself to that heaviness, like I had so many winters before.

So, almost impulsively, I looked online and found a flight to Morocco leaving the next day. It cost only 170pn (€40). Without overthinking it, without allowing fear to intervene, I booked it. My soul had been quietly calling me toward Africa for a long time, and this felt like the right moment.
 

The next day, I packed my work laptop and a couple of outfits into a small cabin bag and boarded a flight to Agadir.

I had absolutely no expectations. I also wasn’t nervous. Just excited, full of the belly butterflies you get before a fun event.
 

Morocco: A Place That Felt Like Home Before I Had Ever Been There
 

Morocco surprised me in every possible way. It was more open, kinder, sunnier, and more beautiful than I could have imagined. From the moment I stepped off the plane, I felt an unexplainable connection to the place. It was as if some part of me already been there.
 

The people were warm and welcoming. Although I received unwanted attention and curiosity as a solo female traveller, I never felt unsafe. There was a constant sense of life happening everywhere, on every street, in every café, in every passing moment but in a slow life kind of way.
 

From the delicious food (Especially the traditional Moroccan dish called Tagines, served in beautiful clay pots) to the palm tree’s to the raw streets, I loved everything about the place.
 

Taghazout, a small coastal village near Agadir, became one of my favourite places I had ever seen. It was slow, soulful, and alive, full of surfers. And I mean full of them! Music floated through alleyways painted with colour and art. The cliffs overlooked the Atlantic ocean, and dont get me started on the perfect sunsets setting over the coast.
 

At the skate park overlooking the coastline, dozens of people gathered simply to just exist together. They were watching, laughing, playing music, sharing nothing but the present moment. There was no rush. No pressure. Just life, exactly as it was meant to be. I remember sitting at the top of the skatepark and thinking, this is what life feels like when people just go with the flow and finally let go.
 

Paradise Valley, hidden within the Atlas Mountains, felt like stepping into another emotional dimension. Walking through rivers, climbing through canyons, and standing at the top overlooking the vastness of it all, I felt small in the most beautiful way. Not insignificant, but free. Free from the illusion that my problems were permanent. Free from the illusion that my life was fixed and already decided.
 

Morocco did not just show me new places. It showed me how free I can feel.

Lesson One: Your Hometown Is Not the Only Life That Exists
 

We often believe that our hometown is reality. That our routines, obligations, and environments are fixed definitions of life itself. We begin to think that what surrounds us is all there is.
 

But it is not.
 

When I returned home from previous travels, people would say, “Welcome back to real life.” But Morocco made me realise something profound. That was real life too. Every person there was living their normal day, their routines, their struggles, their joy. It was not an escape. It was simply another version of existence.

Just because we are used to one environment does not mean it is the only one available to us. Travel breaks the illusion that life is singular. It shows you that there are infinite ways to exist, infinite ways to think, infinite ways to live.

And once you see that, something inside you expands permanently.

Lesson Two: You Meet a Version of Yourself You Might Never Have Met Otherwise
 

Solo travel removes everything familiar. There is no one there to reinforce who you believe you are. There is no comfort zone protecting you from uncertainty. There is only you, your instincts, and the present moment.

You see how you react to uncertainty. You see how you communicate without speaking their language. You see how you navigate situations without anyone to rely on but yourself.
 

To my surprise, I discovered a calmer version of myself.
 

Despite being in a completely different continent, responsible for my own safety, navigation, and wellbeing, I felt more peaceful than I did in my everyday life. I was more open to people. More open to conversation. More open to experience.

I communicated through hand gestures, through google translate, through energy alone. And somehow, everything worked.
 

Without the constant noise of routine obligations, I was able to observe myself clearly. I saw my strength. I saw my openness. I saw my ability to adapt, to trust, and to exist fully in the present moment.

And I realised that version of myself had always been there. She had simply never been given the space to exist.
 

Lesson Three: Curiosity Expands Your Soul
 

Travel awakens curiosity in its purest form. You become curious about everything. The people, the food, the culture, the language, the history, the way strangers live their lives completely separate from your own.
 

Curiosity expands your perspective beyond the narrow lens you were born into. It allows you to see life not as a fixed path, but as an endless landscape of possibility.

Knowledge gained through experience changes you. It makes you more empathetic. More understanding. More alive.
 

Curiosity does not just expand your mind. It expands your soul.
 

Lesson Four: The World Belongs to the Brave
 

Bravery is not loud. It is quiet. It is the moment you decide to act despite uncertainty. Booking that flight was an act of bravery. Boarding the plane was an act of bravery. Trusting myself in the unknown was an act of bravery.

Bravery is what allows life to unfold beyond the limits you place on yourself.
 

If you never step outside of your comfort zone, you never meet the people, see the places, or discover the parts of yourself that exist beyond it. You continue to live in a fixed bubble which in time turns to settling because it’s familiar and comfortable. And everybody knows that nothings grows in comfort. 

It goes without saying that you should always be wary and cautious, especially as a solo female traveller. Im talking travel insurance, sharing your lcoation with loved ones, having enough money in cash and otherwise, looking out for your health and safety.

 

However the world does opens itself to those who are willing to step into it.
 

Lesson Five: It Is Important to Have Stories to Tell
 

Travel gives you stories. Not just destinations, but moments that you will remember for years to come.
 

Like the taxi driver who initially tried to charge me, but then, seeing my struggle, offered to drive me along the coastline for free! He showed me hidden beaches, bought us coffee, played some arabic music, and took photographs of me so I would have memories of myself there. 

If I had chosen comfort, that story would never have existed.
 

These stories become part of who you are. They add depth to your life. They remind you that life is not meant to be lived entirely within predictability.

One day, when you are older, these stories will be proof that you allowed yourself to live fully and that is a beautiful thing to even think about.
 

Lesson Six: Solo Travel Transforms Your Mindset
 

Solo travel changes the way you see your life. It gives you perspective. It makes you question what truly matters to you.

It opens your mind to new possibilities, new ambitions, and new versions of yourself. You realise that you are not stuck. You realise that change is always available to you. And that realisation alone is freedom.

Travel Is an Act of Returning to Yourself
 

Solo travel is not just about seeing the world. It is about seeing yourself without the noise, without the expectations, without the limitations you unknowingly place on your own life.

It allows you to step outside of the version of yourself that was built through routine and obligation, and meet the version of yourself that exists underneath it all.
 

It reminds you that life is not meant to be lived in one place emotionally forever. It is meant to be explored, experienced, and felt deeply!

There are so many beautiful people in this world. So many beautiful streets, cafés, conversations, and quiet moments waiting for you. So many places that will welcome you in ways you never expected. So many versions of yourself that you have not yet met.
 

Solo travel teaches you that you are capable of more than you realise. It teaches you that you can trust yourself. That you can navigate uncertainty. That you can build a relationship with yourself that is not dependent on anyone else.

It puts your life into perspective. It makes you appreciate what you have, while also showing you what is possible.

It reminds you that you are not just here to exist. You are here to experience.

And maybe, somewhere along the way, in a place you never expected, you will meet yourself fully for the first time.
 

Morocco did not just give me memories.

It gave me clarity. It gave me courage. It gave me proof that the person I am becoming exists beyond the limits of the life I had known.

Most importantly, it gave me permission to keep exploring, not just the world, but myself.

Love, S.

A love letter to Morocco

Presented in one of my favourite formats: photography. Without a fancy 10k camera, without studio lighting, without models. Just the sun and the slow life of strangers in Morocco, through my eyes.

Love, S.

Art by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics

Suki's Diaries

We write, we journal our thoughts and feelings to purge but some of what we are hiding away might hold a bigger power than we realise. A section dedicated to my ink stained everyday journal.
Love, S.

I am surprised I still have any hope left, actually.

Real Diary Entries

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Graphic by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics

Everybody want’s to surround themselves with a passionate person until they realise that it also comes with all of the other emotions. Intense longing, sadness, grief, rage, confusion.

A love letter to highly sensitive people

A confession

I would rather be a fool.

Everybody wants to surround themselves with a passionate person until they realize that it also comes with all of the other emotions. Intense longing. Sadness. Grief. Rage. Confusion.

Often we find ourselves drifting naturally toward people who are interesting and passionate, people who have a lust for life, because they make us feel alive! Like there is more to life than the mundanity of it all.

But that also comes with the other side.
 

The other side of passion
 

What a lot of people don’t understand is that passionate people, as much as they can show you that they are ecstatic and love life and really focus on the small things and find beauty in them, also feel all of the other emotions intensely. Grief. Sadness. Rage. Confusion. Emptiness.
 

It’s not just one end of the stick. It goes both ways.

Sometimes people are happy to spend time with passionate individuals because they make life feel exciting and alive. But when it comes down to dealing with the other side, the heavier emotions that aren’t as pretty as the happiness, they suddenly get freaked out and say it’s too much. They distance themselves because they can’t handle the depth and the intensity.
 

And to some degree, I understand that. As a society, we all have different capacities for emotions. Everybody is entitled to choosing how they want to live their life.
 

Pieces of everyday life

What a privilage it is to live a life in which you notice the colour palettes, the shapes, the contrast, the texture, the beauty. And then on top of it, create something inspired by the everyday life.
A constant experiement!

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Art by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics
Art by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics
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MY OWN REFLECTION
Art print edition of an original painting
70cm x 100cm

Something along the lines of

Life imitates Art

Art by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics

Months after creating My Own Reflection, I was having a spontaneous day at home, creating a series of self-portraits. As I was going through the photographs, I realised that one of the photos resembled the painting which was also a self portrait. So to make it even more fabulous. I painted over the photograph using the same colour palette. What a beautiful 'coincidence' in the act of creating something personal. 

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Inside Suki's House of Relics. 

Art by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics
Art by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics

Experimental pieces. 2016.

Art by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics

Original Artwork

By Sonia Vee

1. THE BIRDMANS CAGE
Mixed media on canvas
80cm x 140cm

2. MY OWN REFLECTION
Art print edition of an original painting
70cm x 100cm

Art by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics
Art by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics
Art by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics
Art by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics
Art by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics

Digital Art

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Art by Sonia Vee - Sukis House of Relics

Find a way back to

Yourself

To the thing that fully satisfies your soul.
The creation.
The awe.
The curiosity.
The drive to pursue.

There are things worth paying attention to (even the simplest of things) and sometimes it's the thing that you lost along the way, when you were just trying to survive and do the 'adult' thing. Sometimes your soul calls for something entirely different. Find it and nurture it. 

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